"Working with you has been a gift - you’re amazing and we’re both so thankful."  


- L.S. and E.W.

Your relationships are deeply important to you. You know that if your relationships are in trouble, the other parts of your life will suffer too. So you don’t want to waste any more time. 

My goal is to get quickly to the root of your challenges and help you figure out the steps you can take right now to move you and your relationships to where you want them to be - so that you don’t need me anymore.

I have helped hundreds of clients identify and break out of harmful relationship patterns and rewrite broken scripts. I help you see and use your strengths and inner wisdom to trust yourself deeply. I empower you to fall in love with yourself while holding your people close, so that your relationships become full of ease, meaning, and joy in your life

I have worked with multiple therapists and psychologists over the years. None of them compared to my sessions with Libby. She has exceeded my expectations over and over.

- Mia N.

  • Support a plurality of relationship dynamics including open, swinging, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, kink, poly/mono, relationship anarchy, intentional monogamy and everything in between

  • Affirm the full spectrum of experiences and identities around sexuality and gender including folks who are queer, asexual, genderfluid, transgender and agender.

  • Hold that my clients are whole, worthy and enough just as they are

  • Presume my clients are highly competent and experts in what’s best for them

  • Are trauma-informed and body-positive and is informed by disability justice work

  • Support creating and maintaining stable, long-term alternative family structures

  • Work to decolonize wellness and love by dismantling dominance-based, power-over structures

My Offerings

How to Work with Me

Private Coaching

For folks who need customized support, I offer private ongoing guidance. I have several private coaching packages that I offer to couples, individuals, and groups.

One-Off Consultations

Looking for my take on your situation or wanting someone to hold space in a moment where you’re feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? A one-off session is perfect for that. We can use the time how you would like. We take stock of your situation and what you’re facing, and I can share reflections that invite you into your own wisdom and clarity. I can also offer some ideas about where to turn for more help or what the next right step might be. Or you can just pick my brain about whatever’s on your mind. One session, either 60 minutes or 90 minutes (90 minutes recommended for 2 people.)